This is Dr.
Ray
Desire to share
our life with another person is among our strongest emotions.
When relationships fail, we usually try again.
We know how it starts; perhaps an alluring voice
over the phone, a first meeting,
a little reality and the challenge
begins:
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Growing relationships are nurtured as we discover more about each other. Positive experiences support our hopes and dreams.
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Lasting relationships mature as rapture and reality become one and the same. Your reward for honesty is an ever-deepening understanding of each other and yourselves. |
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Identify what is important to each of you as separate individuals. Your self-designated passwords make your This Is Me! online reports - absolutely private and accessible only to you, |
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Share safest information early on. Trust evolves as you respond to each other with increasingly clear and focused communications. |
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Observe the following guidelines for positive communication: |
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When I share my concerns, accept them as true. My reality is not negotiable. |
I mean what I
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Ask sincere, genuine questions. I will feel respected and motivated to share my concerns with you. |
Ask me
questions ! |
When I explain myself, don't interrupt me. I need time to clearly express my thoughts and feelings. |
Don't
interrupt me !
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Our communication skills and trust will grow as we share our genuine concerns with each other. |
Your
Turn ! |
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Continuing
dialogue !
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We can take the PCI as often as we like ! We
will build our evolving relationship on truth, understanding and love. |